Forget-me-nots

Tonight the light, as it fades, makes the forget-me-nots glow iridescent. Even in this gray evening in May, when it seems like the night should be warm, and the sky full of stars, the air is cool enough to make us build a fire. The mist is thick over the hills.
It seems inconceivable that a few short days ago I was in the hot sun in Tuscon, hiking along the rocky hills, appreciating the cactus in bloom, air drying in the warm breeze after a shower.

Tuscon was the site of graduation from The University of Arizona Law School for my daughter-in-law Kirsten, and her roommate Jessica, who is also my son Arlyn's girlfriend. What a weekend it was, to celebrate this achievement, and Kirsten and her Mom's shared birthday.

As I watched the girls approach the stage, I held the flowers we would hand them on their way up the auditorium aisle, and tried to fathom the work, the studying, the papers, the tests they have forged through for three years. I felt so honored to have them in my life.

I sat next to Amery, realizing that he had supported his wife diligently to help her attain her goal. He has already proved himself a good husband.

I felt so awed that Kirsten and Amery planned and carried out a wedding during the time in law school, and that someday they will be the parents - the smart, fun, competent parents of my grandchildren..... it was almost too much to comprehend as I sat in the dark building, listening to the inspiring speeches. I knew in the most visceral way that I was watching the future.

A week in the sunshine, and the milestones of family was almost too much to comprehend all at once. I managed to rent a car, fly alone, find my way around an unfamiliar town, and read 3 good books too. I would recommend it .... desert hiking, family parties and bookstore browsing. 

Let this be a toast in words to you, my sons and their partners. You have all worked so hard, to graduate from college, go on to masters programs and career work in your chosen fields. You are all I could hope for and more in a family. May the world go well for you..